Easter *updated with pics of all my kids

We have never really done much for Easter.

This year I was thinking about doing several things but was prepared for none of them.

I forgot to get everyone new clothes so I was scrambling around Sunday morning to find nice things for everyone to wear.

I felt like it was a miracle we all got ready in time for church.

Then we stepped outside and saw all the windows down on the vehicle, in the rain…

I was ready to call it quits but my husband told the boys to get towels.

I was thinking “WE ARE STILL GOING?”

Ha.

We made it but I realized I had nothing special for Easter meal.

I had thought about it but never actually bought it…

We decided to go on the trip to the Salt Plains Wildlife Refuge while driving home from church.

It is 2.5hrs one way to get there.

I was so happy though.

Definitely more my speed than fancy meals and themed activities.

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2.5hrs for snow?

YES!

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Someone just read the Chronicles of Narnia and was taken with the Dawn Treader.

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Instead of Easter eggs they searched for bones.

My kind of Easter!

 *I updated this post with pictures of our girls also after adoption.

I was not able to share them at the time since we had not finalized the adoption.

Books and Resources we have found helpful while fostering.

These are some of the resources that I highly recommend to foster parents/adoptive parents or even just parents with difficult children.

They have totally changed how I parent and how I see my children’s behaviors.

A lot of children just need to be taught how to deal with frustration and how to calm themselves in the same way they need to be taught how to read.

It is a rough hard road and if I help make it even a little easier for just one family than I will be happy.

Parents of children from hard places we can do this!

For Parents:

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The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children

This book really helps introduce the concept of collaborative problem solving and helping teach kids how to deal with frustration.

There are some videos on youtube also of Dr. Ross Greene teaching on this concept.

The Connected Child

Such a good book about how to parent children from hard places and answers a lot of the why’s behind the behaviors.

Goes with the TBRI training.

Empowered to Connect

Similar to the connected child but with more biblical principles added in.

They have the study guide available for free on their site!

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Trust-Based Relational Intervention® Training(we bought the training videos but there are free online resources as well).

Similar to The Connected Child and Empowered to Connect but more in depth.

For the kids:

The Angry Octopus

Teaches easy to follow relaxation techniques in a fun story about an Octopus that gets angry.

Dealing with Feeling Angry

A great kids book that gives them ideas of what to do when angry.

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The Rabbit who wants to fall asleep

We read this book every night!

It has helped so much with reluctant sleepers!

Sea Otter Cove: A relaxation story

Another great book to help teach little one’s how to calm down and relax.

Bubbles

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They of course started battling with them.

Which did not surprise me…

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We also tried Pipe cleaners for bubble wands for the first time and they did great!

We used them in this touchable bubbles recipe.

They did not seem very touchable but they did great for just blowing bubbles.