Category Archives: My Family

Sometimes doing nothing is hard…

A couple of years ago I went Blueberry picking with the Mom’s group I am a part of.

The whole “this is a fun thing to do” idea was a little new to me but it was nice talking while working.

The next day my back slipped out.

Even worse was the fact my husband was in Poland at the time.

I had to work hard to recover what I did in one day for a month at least.

After that I promised I would not go berry picking again.

I am just not always great at doing things in moderation and I don’t really need to pick berries.

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This year my boys begged me to go with our group berry picking again.

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They said I would not have to do anything and they would do all of the work.

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And they did amazing!

While I watched.

I did nothing.

Why is that so hard as a mom?

To watch your children work while you look on.

I kept taking deep breaths and telling myself that it did not matter what others thought but it was difficult to not feel lazy.

The boys did not mind me not helping at all because that is what we agreed to!

Kids are awesome.

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If you want to not pay for the berries you pick you give the farm 2/3 and you keep 1/3.

So they needed to pick a lot to get enough to make the trip worth it, since it is pretty far away from us.

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They decided the blueberry patch was a kingdom and to declare your intentions of peace you gave them a ripe blueberry.

Green blueberries were of course a declaration of war…

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We have great mom’s in our group that play along.

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They picked all of these by themselves.

I stuck to my word and did not pick a single berry.

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They were so proud of their haul!

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Great job!

Kids are capable of so much more than we give them credit for!

If you are local and want to know where we went it was Thunderbird Farms, link here.

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Little Bit LOVED the blueberries!

She was pretty upset when I would not keep giving them to her.

Sometimes it just hurts.

We were asked to make an impossible decision yesterday.

Just know that if you want to do foster care that you will feel heartbreak that you did not know you could physically handle.

Over and over.

If you really do what is best for these kids and love them like your own, you will get hurt.

My hope and prayer at the end of the day is the decisions we make bring more good than bad.

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Is it still worth it?

Yes.

Sometimes I have to remind myself of that though.

11th Anniversary

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It’s funny too me how important dates are early on.

You need to celebrate on that exact date or maybe you aren’t married after all?

I understand that some people still really like to celebrate on the exact date for things but I have realized recently that dates don’t mean as much to me.

Moments do.

 

This year we did not really plan anything for our anniversary.

Life happened.

Beautiful, amazing, everyday life.

The one I dreamed about before I met Nick and was having a lonely moment.

I would rather enjoy this everyday life then stress about making the day stand out and be different.

 

Maybe we go on a hike tomorrow or go to a festival, maybe not.

I will still enjoy spending the weekend with this analytical, caring, amazing man.

I am so thankful for 11yrs of growing stronger together.

I am blessed.